"Focus on what you do well." ,this is what my advisory-bench told me ,knowing my holding quality to fight back with the KING-KONGs audaciously ,verbally of course. Though debates are futile ,but they give deep insight & optimistic thinking to topics ,and enthusiasm flares up if the opposition is a guy ,then ego plays faster at both sides and its a 'Clash of Titans' .Thus, the need2debate brought the legacy of Lawyerism in my life, and hence here u will also be encountered with the Law-ly lingo and its aspects.
I was personally not in favour of opening a blog but when I had discussions about the same, I come across good & bad affects of it. Some said ,its just an emotional outburst of a person while others said, its a way to bring awareness in other important topics of the society. I agree to both. And , getting bored with my vacations ,I finally decided to have my own blog where will spread the word for " WOMAN". Though I m a tyro in this blogsphere. But, I will try my best efforts to upbring the WOMANHOOD in a way so that MEN can understand her emotionally, mentally and her needs to be treated as "HUMAN " and not as a weak gender, who is depended on some jackass!
Since years I have been observing Violence on Women. The questions which comes to me are, Why a Woman is treated so badly? Has she done any heinous crime? Why men only dominate them most? Are MEN scared of women ??? In childhood my parents told me, "Maa Durga" is a Goddess and all humans in this world worship her. The other day I was curious to know why do we worship her, when she is a WOMAN?? Logically, in a world where all Women face so much of violence&insult from Men ,then why this particular lady is worshipped as deity to those who dominate and insult the same gender in this world. I worship her & all womanhood worship her is justifiable , but WHY MEN?? Are they also woman is some kind ? Or, are they impressed from the goddess? Or are they worshipping her, so that they can get love, prosperity and peace in life .More importantly, are they so self-centered , that they can bow down to any woman for this sake?
Studying all life in a Co-Ed school never gave me a feeling that I m discriminated as a girl, rather sometimes I use to feel sorry for the boys ,who were not given opportunity because of girls! As years passed ,all boys and girls respected each other's dignity and self-respect. I feel proud that I had so good school (Classmates) friends in boys who always took us as same and they still continue to do the same. But real life starts when you are in college.
Eventually, I also had colorful dreams to study in a good college and of course boys are must! Guess?I was in a best college but with NO BOYS!!! People don't know how it feels to spend your precious ,energetic youthful years in a GALS College, when you 've spend your entire life in a Co-Ed.. huh!! Hey guys, no need to get charged ! The reason behind co-ed college was not to hire "Guys For Romancing" but ,to get the tuff competition that guys throw, their humor, knowledge expansion is more in them & moreover there spirit to touch the sky.I like them for this. I begged my dad to get me some other college, but due to some rivalry of mine with him at that time, he dragged me 'To become a Bhenji!!'So, I was thrown in a hell with all those cruel Yumdootees!
I guess intro is crossing its limits, so I stop here. Wrapping up ,I assure you that this blog is not against Men in general nor to anyone in particular, its just an effort to make world better for all humans. I'll cover here all my analytical observations ,adding loads of spice and humor. Also, my most adventurous and memorable visit to kgp & its ppl will be described here in detail. SO ,wait till next edition! The retreating beat has just begun.......
P.S: Being a Woman you at least have an advantage to speak more, after all we'r tagged for this :D!
9 comments:
Well.. some introduction that..
While I agree that women the world over have been subjected to systemic repression since time immemorial, I do not agree that it is as simple a matter as blaming men for all the atrocities.
yes,we men have been quite regressive in our thinking but sometimes you must consider the possibility that all men cant be inhuman fiends and the onus on fighting back also lies on women to a large extent.
I am currently in the UK and I see supposedly much more free and liberal females roaming about with total gay abandon. If it was an inherent streak within the male psyche to attack any female if possible, then this would not have been possible.
Educated women have always fought back and have always receieved their rightful dues.
But face it, no one ever gives anything to anyone without asking. There is no such thing as a free lunch milady !
having said that, a blog like this is a good idea to put forth all ur opinions and get feedback from all and sundry.
Welcome to the Blogosphere and best of luck.
-Adi
Thanks for ur feedback adi. I think u din't got my blog, i said i dont consider all men that way.I like part of them .And u really proved what i wrote :)like men give comptt. , humour, knowledge and ur spirit to go up.
It would have been better if u answered my asked question.
Welcome!
I am putting ur blog's link in my blog so ppl can directly refer to it when they go thru ur name in my blog.
idea of ur blog is good, but like many new blogers(including me) u waver from the topic quite far and quite often. like what is the need to tell abt ur school and college in this introduction. It cud have easily ocuppied a whole new post.
and u r welcome to write abt us. i will link everything to my blog :)
Thanx Jayant for u feedback. But , i did thought ppl don't kw ,so its better if i tell them somth abt me life,that is intresting to me.So i started with it in intro.n of course i'll give coverage to my school & college life.
As far as ur gift for blogging is concerned, I may agree..if its taken as sensitive thought.Thanks again!
LOoking forward to the Kgp description :)
@sunny :yeah sure buddy ,it'll be soon here.
hey VJ!! u 've atlas written down thngs..One thng which i like best here, is the title,it suits u, also ur humour as usual is cool.
and i want to reads ur next blog..as to what is funky abt kgp..i hope , i'll also get a space there.
First, congratulations Vijeta for opening your blog, Your name itself reflects the 'victor', and this attitude is apparent in your blog as well. You have a new insight into the way in which a girl feels. Few have the courage to say things the way you have said. And I always appreciate your bluntness.
I am surprised, living in a city like Delhi, to see a girl so much different from other girls. Here I never found anyone concerned about socoiety, all the finely dressed ladies think of is their job, salary and good time pass. Time pass, time pass and time pass is all todays generation want. Among people like these its good to see a fighter, but I feel at times that fighter is losing grip from the helm of the ship she is steering. Manytimes I felt a chill of defeat in her word. Vijeta, just remember one thing. How valuable you want the most precious thing of your life to be? You want its value to be as cheap as peanuts or as high as that of the rarest diamond, or even more?
I guess you will say: priceless. So, when you accept that the most precisous thing of your life "your dream" to be priceless, why you expecting to get it at the cost of peanuts. Dreams demand price and that price is paid throught the currency of 'time -- no matter how long it take', courage- no matter how hard', and 'will to go on'. My question is how much you have paid till date?
Once I wrote "Have I worked hard to deserve a reward?"
All I want to see Vijeta is: A TRUE WINNER.
@ Swapnil: hey swap! this one has knock me out...reallly n u r really a motivator..neways thanx a lot for a beautiful feedback n i will work on it..
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