Tuesday, August 19, 2008

My Break Year

We can easily and readily soar to success if we think and believe that we can definitely and positively attain success.Anything is possible to him that believeth and toils. Napoloeon and Linclon,Gandhi and Churchill,Roosevelt and Lenin ,Edison and Marconi,Shakespeare and Leonardo da Vinci,Ford and Rockfeller , have all been mortals and men like you and me. If they can succeed and attain greatness ,definitely you and I also can ...this was the positivity and spirit, I'd in me when I decided to take an off year..

This was one of my crucial decision and never in my dreams I thought ,I'd take a break for M.B.A exams ! My first love has been law and in my undergraduation ,due to family reasons I could not take a one year break which would have certainly landed me to one of the National Law Insititute. But, that time taking a year break just for prepration of law , was a big deal for my dad. He convinced me ,to pursue it later.

Finally, I completed by graduation last year and was all set to hit a law course abroad. I can't blame anyone , neither do I want to blame anyone for my incapibility to decide how will I take my next step. Of course, by the time I passed out, my family was dead against me to pursue law any furthur and kept screwing me to do M.B.A and earn and live life kingsize ! phew!

A lot of friction happened at home,none were at my side and my standards were totally going imaginery. As it is said, 'If you don't decide for urself u r forced to take what others decide for you'. I am one of the victims,of this phrase. Things got worse for me,as my decleration of taking drop year got into official year 'one year off '. I don't want to make this post negative ,what has happened in this one year span has definitely not been comfortable but I learnt the best of life from this one year..

Yes..am constantly in the process of learning, I am preparing myself for the journey ahead….I am growing as a person, I am exploring different facets of mine…which I never got a chance to explore when I was into a fixed regime of a student life…. I never thought ,I'll indulge in a social cause and protests which was totally off track thing ,for me but I did it and helped many and learnt a lot about different facets of life.It was a good experience...I spent a lot of time with people who were younger to me,elder to me.I enjoyed every single moment with them. They made me laugh,made me feel good at times of misery and gave me a reason to feel the spirit of life-Thanks to all of them ! Esp. Chabbs,Tej,Swati,Tinu,NKS,Chaitu,SVL staff n frnds.

On the contrary, people call me a dropper. Dropper is such a depressing word….such a negative term and therefore I have dropped the idea of calling myself a dropper its better that other learn it too because people who have taken a break from their studies are not droppers they are learners.

Every year, there are number of students from different streams who prepare year long with a positive notion in my mind, they'll succeed and will get their aim.Some make a dropout success saga and others could not , this does not mean they are less in caliber or have been licenced to be cursed at! They are strong people and they need to believe it themselves first , then only others will. Coz even if you can't make it to that dream destination of yours , but you have achieved and recieved a new 'YOU' ,just another take and who knows you are the next King! If you are confident , this world recieves you and if you are not , be ready to bow down ! Which you DON'T deserve at all !

Atlas! Just wanna say one last funda line 'Ugtte huye suraj ko hi sab salaam karte hai' DJ-di (courtesy: Rang De Basanti ) style mein bole toh, 'Is duniya vich ussi ki poch hoti hai, jiski ukaad hondi hai '.Grant me pardon , for my language but this is hard fact we all know and should know!

My one year break has finally come to an end, my seniors often say it'll be hard to get back to classroom teaching after one year break but there were many students I met who made me beleive we took a break with a frame of mind we have to study after one year , when work experince ppl can , who have earned a bank balance and have had a completely haywire life , than why can't we!!?? SURELY, WE CAN .

Hope, I get back to you with loads of good news and with same positivity!

..Moral of the story...a drop is a drop if u drop the idea of working hard!

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