Showing posts with label frnds. Show all posts
Showing posts with label frnds. Show all posts

Monday, May 18, 2009

Brick Lane..

After fight with khokho I became regular to my office. And, on saturday i.e 16May . My Boss called me and explained me my project. I was dealing with a very minor issue and now on I will called in the executive meetings with CFO etc

With me in office there are two more girls with me in the entire corporate office. Its only three of us. Anupama , is from Amity Business School,Delhi. And, Nisha is here for CS interns. We gelling very fine that day and were sharing stories with each other and helping . In lunch ,we decided to go to a near by mall in Noida. Shopprix , is the mall near by. They both got permisson from their boss and I was sure my boss will give it anyway.But, he did'nt permit me and gave me some gyan for free.I had to stay back,So, I did.

They both had to leave coz , permission was granted and staying back was risky. So, they asked me to reach the mall by 6pm and they would wait there for me. By the then , around 6pm tauji called me , R.D called me saying he will pick me from office but that was not possible. So, I went to mall by riksha and did some shopping and was in Mc D and had fun.

Sunday, December 28, 2008

Some things always come to an end....

"Some things always come to an end...."

I strongly believe in this most common saying , quiet recently. Dating back since my school days I never believed in it. I was never so practical to make a mind set , that those friends u make in your school time..will ever leave you..I knew they are studying with me for next 14 years and it is more than satisfying one could get.

But, in my Grade 7th ,I made a friend who was a good friend .She was just like me..but too loud and mischievous and use to bully others...I wasn't such type , though. She and I were seating partners in class 7th and 8th. She was a mighty figure. I could never forget her..though we departed after 2 years. We even had bad fights ,but my liking for her never got shaken. I liked the kind she was. But, she surely was not my type. Then , I realized a few things about life ,people,friendship et al.

In my 11th class , I met a new specie of people. A totally bifurcated caste n crew of our batch , which i never looked upon. All my friends took Maths /Sci but none wanted to take Commerce. It was me , who decided to take commerce +C.Sc and continue studying in CBSE Board . I love CBSE Board .Ashok Ganguly, Rocks! :) This is the man ,whose brainchild always fascinated me about his ideas on innovating education and its ways. I like it, thats all.

So, in 11th Class I'd new people ,new subject, new teachers ,new set of mind and yes new friends. I guess ,these two years of school life I was serious for studies,rest I was never ! I grommed myself to the best. I saw life changing its pace..friends changing their dialects....everything was a new experience and I lived it. Life was still too unpredictable for me. After 12th, I got my carrer. the kind of carrer I wanna be in. Law. I found myself, never so dedicated and head strong. It was a passion.My days n night were spent thining ,eating ,drinking ,talking law. It was a magic. I wanted it badly. I performed well. In 20 days of prep , I could manage a good score and missed my merit by .05 marks. This was disastrous! I still get shivering when I think of that day...its encrypted in my mind n heart forever . After that I cried, I cried and I cried. I filled only one form of Law ,only because my maternal uncle asked me to,who was himself a judge.

My dad, never wnated me to take a drop year and sit at home. that time , there were no coaching for law in my city. He was'nt even ready to send me out for coaching. It was a big mess for me. I can call them my wonder years. I enjoyed the beauty ,the power of my dreams. It was a new me ,like never before. I became quiet. Nothing in my head could make me happy apart from law ,law talks,law people. Yea, I was crazy. in my commerce college, which was forcibly decided by my dad ,I did not interacted with classmates there for 1.5 years. they knew me as a quiet girl, who dosen't talk, reads newspaper ,always carry an oxford dictinary and reacts only to professors in class. May be ,I was punhsing myself .But, that was me. Later in 1.5 years I met Su and Tej and they became my friends. Tej is still in touch but Su..she went her way and we never became friends again...it was sad but some things always come to an end...she taught me to accept the reality of life. Grateful to her.Thanks buddy :-)

Later, I met a friend who was not of my age or my stream or anything. Everything was unplanned ,even our friendship and even our depart. Yes,even departation happened here too...and again my mind says no matter how good things are or the good memories they give they ALWAYS come to an end...because they are ought to end ..so that new things can come in our life and we can be loving and faithful to them..

Last note in this post, I misss all my friends who departed fomr soem reason or other...but they always remain in my heart ....things end with a bad note only but within our heart I can never loathe the poeple I once loved..thats me !

Love u all my pals :) Miss u all :(

Friday, November 21, 2008

BB Movies : Dostana


You know ,its 'Dostana ' . No, you know its gay ! The story is light ,very light. And watching this movie early morning ,is a waste. I suffered this. Yesterday, me and my friends went to catch up 9:30 am show of Dostana. I did not wanted to watch the movie,but due to mood swing ,I went.

I cannot narrate the sizzling Shilpa's number ,because I missed the beginning of the movie ! I was lucky to miss 15 mins rest of my friends missed 30 mins of the movie ,crazy ppl!

I seriously , have no interest to tell you the story because there's no story except the fact, that John and Abhishek in the movie act gay just to get the citizenship of NYC .Being gay, you get the permit within 1 year ,which generally takes 5 years for others. So , they play smart. In the mid, they are also looking for an apartment ,which has best of facilities at a reasonable cost and a beautiful lady around. So, Priyanka aka Neha is the beautiful gal who let them share her apartment to pay off her loan debts and also she feels secure to have gay as housemates.Quiet logical,only if guys are really gays! No offfence.

I liked Neha's dressing sense.Amazing.She was utterly looking ravishing ,hot ,beautiful ,but guys in the movie or theater did not gave her a damn !? Surprises me. John ,looks superb in the movie, c'mon he can't be gay rather we should put it like he should be gay. Abhishek, was not so appealing but his gay acting was very real and natural.I laughed and so did others.

I disliked ,Boman Irani's role ,too goddy. And, Bobby Deol was real spoiled sport ,not a single impressive expression ! There's a kid in the movie ,who is Bobby aka Abhinav's son. He's very sweet and I liked him :-) And, Mrs Anupam Kher plays truly pathetic ! No comments about other characters. I was wondering Karan would surprise us with Special Appearence of SRK or Kajol or Rani ,but none were there , only a silly video of Kuch Kuch Hota Hai was sreened in the movie , which sucked big time . Karan , please don't ever try and make movies without SRK , u suck man !

One thing, that I noticed while watching and would want to share is , if you(girls) go and watch this movie with guys ,then don't sit next to them and keep on noticing the changing expressions within quantum of time.Its more exciting then the movie.! Later, you will hear their cry out to sit with girl(s) :-D

N.B: And, yes the above expression in guys will come ,when they see the kissing scene of John and Abhishek,its said to be highly influential ;-)

Wednesday, January 23, 2008

The 'Unmissable'

" Its true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it,but it's also true that we don't know what we 've been missing until it arrives"

OK. I have a lot more things to write about ,but today I want to put my spotlight on the most uneasy and impatient word 'Missing' .Everybody in their life have some thing,some person ,some moments , some achievements that they miss in life . By the age of 21 years ,I have met many people who have given me respect to share there feelings about their loved ones. If I seperate teh feelings of guys n gals for a moment. Then the only difference between them would be, " Girls admit they miss a thing ,a person n will describe u the entire thing in a nanosecond." whereas , Guys will not say they miss a thing, a person but there actions, bodylanguage goes more clear than words" .The only advantage guys have ,their admittance about 'Missing' is always doubtable ! So, nobody can win an arguement with them..u bet!

Well , I am girl and I do miss people who were in my life.I might have fight with them but I also had great time with them.There were days when I trusted them ,loved them and I still do. As it is said, good things don't last. So, that's life!

This post is dedicated to all the lovely humans out there, who miss their beloved but can't say it.Here I am to make u smile. Read n enjoy the beautiful life journey without regrets n grudges!

I hope u'd like the 'Unmissable' quotes :)

“I miss you when something really good happens, because you are the one I want to share it with. I miss you when something is troubling me, because you are the one who understands me so well. I miss you when I laugh and cry because i know that you are the one that makes my laughter grow and my tears disappear. I miss you all the time, but I miss you most when i lay awake at night and think of all the wonderful times we spent with eachother;for those were some of the best times of my life.”

If I never met you, I wouldn't like you. If I didn't like you, I wouldn't love you. If I didn't love you, I wouldn't miss you. But I did, I do, and I will.”

One day you'll miss me like i missed youOne day you'll cry for me like I cried for you andOne day you'll love me and I won't love you

“They say when you are missing someone that they are probably feeling the same, but I don't think it's possible for you to miss me as much as I'm missing you right now”

“I'm not a complete idiot, some parts are missing”

"I dropped a tear in the ocean ...The day you find it is the day il stop missing you "

"Absence from whom we love is worse than death and frustrates hope severer than despair." - William Cowper

"What is the opposite of two? A lonely me, a lonely you." - Richard Southey

"The reason it hurts so much to seperate is because our souls are connected." - Nicholas Sparks

"In the hope to meet
Shortly again, and make our absence sweet. " - Ben Jonson

"A goodbye isn't painful unless you're never going to say hello again." - Author Unknown

"Missing you could turn from pain to pleasure,if I knew you were missing me too." - Author Unknown

"It is loneliness that makes the loudest noise .This is true of men as of dogs." - Eric Hoffer

I think that's enough for that day..yeah?! We all know within ourselves who much we love things , miss them but its just the words that do wonders..sometimes we say them sometimes we don't. Well all happens for the better of oneself. Live life!

And ,before I leave you in memory of your loved ones..Here's my favorite quote on 'missing' (all mentioned above, i like them ,also) :

" Sometimes one person is missing , seems whole world is depopulated." - Lamartine

Sunday, January 20, 2008

Little Big Voice

I should'nt be here,then where? In the back of my mind ,I suspect I should have non-anger pills. Is the situation, so worse? But,I still couldn't really believe it, when a fight with a friend, realized me this.I had absolute faith in my relationships. I can't really say I am fit as a fiddle. But, I surmise I have learnt again something from life, relations and the aftermath,of course.

As far as I see,I am not suppose to answer anyone or justify anything.But,I still prefer to be straight and clear like ,what I mean and why I behaved so and so.I am never boorish with my friends. There are some circumstances when they DON'T understand my principles,so I've to settle scores in a normal and hilarious way.I am not a talented napper .I knock off exactly after 15 minutes. To surpirze you more ,I do just the reverse of this quote, "Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt."

Human is very sharp creature, the more you try n work with him ,the more you are worked up! I don't understand why things get complex, when just can be soughted out in just a word of care or may be just a smile can give big time relief. But, no people love to play with games and then curse god,world,life, and yes don't forget that friend! After all ,this analysis would'nt have been possible without the hatred n support of the lovely friend. (# the one u'd fite with)

Looking for trouble? Call your friend and ask 3 good and bad things about yourself.If he/she denies , press them to answer.Still if they don't, analyse things right from begenning of the friendship. If the couterpart,wants to take some revenge from you a fight is very much possible ,even if your stars say "Today u'll have a hot brunch with a friend!" .Don't give a shit to astrology,if u ever do! You bet..the relationship get much worse and you end up saying," It was destined to happen!"

Anyway, coming back to fite fundas# Go on insisting for 10min with your friend to answer that question,if they still deny ?! You automatically get a spy eye..what's that can't be disclosed when we share everything? Now, that's the fire alarm! Just take a deep breathe ,your work is done. The fight is on. This situation is not less than a movie climax, the question rises ," Who will slam down the phone?" Certainly, by customs one has to keep blabbering and thus other will get a genuine reason to slam down the phone, thus mission accomplised. Want more trouble?

Now, hours later or a day later you miss your fighter friend.Curse yourself for doing this and being so bad, rude etc. You decide to call after some realizations.. many things come to your mind before calling.Things haunt. But, you remember one beautiful line your friend said..and in emotions you call!

You make faces ,when punching the number, cut the number once and then dial as if you forget the number, but that;s you ego coming in.Still you side it.Try it after 10 min ,reading a friendly- sms from them and then you again make attempt, common we are friends at the end of the day!

Bell rangs, you get concsious,raise you voice and say ,"what's up?" If voice, is apt to be normal you start with a good note or you are sarcastic anyway! If sarcastic, be ready for a heated conversation.You bet!

After, a while you all know.C'mon ,am not the one who fights alone with friends! Many do.Its just I get very much caring . A spice in life necessary! Sorry..to all the friends .And, love you , miss you all.[:)]

Wednesday, January 16, 2008

A day out!

My inner conciousness is very abstract.I am really moody but some things I just can't leave! My mood really ditch's me, at times.Life has so far taught me many things.But, I do find a drawback with this ongoing experince.I have to compromise my feelings,emotions..that often destroys my inner peace.

The above written is something that just came in my mind to write and so I did.Hope some gets the meaning.

What an alarming morning ! As these days I am at home.I spend my entire day in my way.But , today's morning was in comparison the most adventerous. My dear sis, missed her bus so I had to drop her .A triple seater driving in the early morning when you have just woke up?! I am very particular when I've to drive ,whether you like it or not. It took me 15mins to reach 35km.YOu can imagine the speed of mine and the condition of my two sweet pillions. They screamed but they reached!

Huh! Back home,mum told me to get some work done .Later,I got a call for a meeting ,in refrence to BCL.Now, no appoinments could be taken.Some 25kms again I'd to drive .This place was unknown to me,and this was National Highway 12. I could view only trucks,lorry.trucks ,lorry! Any how I reached.Did my work ,learnt a new thing(will write a post on that ,later) Was a kool trip.

On my way back my college pal Tej called up to attend a party.And, I just could'nt say NO.We made plans before but just date wasn't confirmed.And, my dear best friends do hold that much place to be adjusted! But, the only prob in meeting her was, I did'nt had her gift! We were meeting after 7 months and this could'nt be done.I am not type of parsimonious:p ! I got her flowers,she hates them.Effort gone in vain. We talked,giggled,discussed et al. Pizza Hut was our venue. No E.Ts, only talks and Pizzasss...!

If you are accompanying me for a treat you gotta eat ice-cream.So did she. Trust me she is wild.I did'nt expecting her.Meri bhi Maa..hai Just to eat ice-cream we went all the way to other market,which is quiet far off. And, two girls together without shopping...ewww..Not possible!

So, my preety chance to buy her a gift finally.We bought two branded shades.Very cool. The resultant, my entire pocket money was/is out:( But, the happiness was priceless. After a ramp walk ,with our newly bought shades.Guess what? I met one of school friend,Reena. Reena and I were not so close friends but we use to hoot a lot together.She was a real loud one. The only things she said me, after meeting was ," Vijeta ,tu kitni patli ho gayi hai,bahot cute-sweet lag rahi hai "

Chupke se kahin..jane kis tarah kis ghadi ,somebody sang this song ,coming near to me.Something,clicked me for a moment..a surprise,when figured out it was the damn CCD waiter! Felt like hitting him hard. His luck,that was my fav. song. I wish if this song ,had real meanings..

Coming back..the day was well spent with the only worry,will my dad give me money? even if he dosen't give I won't regret,why he did'nt gave.I had such a great time with a friend.A real happiness and genuine feelings are hard to find in a person.Thanks Tej.

Sunday, July 22, 2007

B'day Cookies

Hiya! This Is Me, who has turned one year older and is all set to rock around and actually surprise herself. Celebrations , dont need a reason but making my bday a happier one is difficult one, since childhood ,I guess. Years after years, I met new people in my life who not helped me knowing this world better but have also filled my empty space, somewhere or the other. I dont blame anyone , who have gone away and are not with me today to celebrate this bday or for that matter ,till I exist on this earth! Yea..yea Mature indeed.
Eventually, I miss them all !! Although, I do not understand why birthday's are so important and such a biig buzz. But, really I love Birthday's whether its my mum,dad,sis,cousins,friends,net friends,any stanger or say anyone. I just feel so good .And, from inside I feel to do something special to them,no matter who it is or what it takes! My family really gets annnoyed with me whenever I paint a person's face with his/her cake..they blabber till their last breathe (not my dad,mum or sis ) but others in my Kutumb . Its not that shabby as it seems to be, but it makes ur face glossy! Though , no one ever put it on my face:( I just love it!
Yesterday was my B'day, and dont know but had instincts that some surprises are on my way, may be an unexpected call, or a boomrang gift or my dad giving me his car keys! But, as usual nothing happened of that sort and those were expected to wish me , they DID NOT , no offence but do locate me next years! Yea, a special thanks to all my frnds who wished me in their own gangsta style, my parents and my sis esp. for making me chocolate cake 2 times! and arranging a get together! And, last but not the least my online frnds ,BCL frnds, and all uncles at SPorts club.THank YOU to ALL!! Here's a song I like..
You know it doesnt make much sense
There ought to be a law against
Anyone who takes offense
At a day in your celebrationcause we all know in our minds
That there ought to be a time
That we can set aside
To show just how much we love you
And Im sure you would agree
It couldnt fit more perfectly
Than to have a world party on the day you came to be
Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday
Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday
I just never understood
How a man who died for good
Could not have a day that would
Be set aside for his recognition
Because it should never beJust because some cannot see
The dream as clear as he
That they should make it become an illusion
And we all know everything
That he stood for time will bring
For in peace our hearts will sing
Thanks to martin luther king
Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday
Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday
Why has there never been a holiday
Where peace is celebrated
All throughout the world
The time is overdue
For people like me and you
Who know the way to truthIs love and unity to all gods children
It should never be a great event
And the whole day should be spent
In full remembranceOf those who lived and died for the oneness of all people
So let us all begin
We know that love can win
Let it out dont hold it in
Sing it loud as you can
Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday
Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday
Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday
Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday
Happy birthday
Happy birthday
Happy birthday
Ooh yeah
Happy birthday...
We know the key to unify all people
Is in the dream that you had so long ago
That lives in all of the hearts of people
That believe in unity
Well make the dream become a reality
I know we will
Because our hearts tell us so
This is a song by Steive Wonder.